The Mentalist explained the show was choreographed and every reaction within the crowd was known in advance. This resonated with me when his assistant walked out on the other side of the stage and diverted our attention to her. The mentalist said that we would all be watching her, which we were. He knew what reaction she would have on his audience, and he was right.

This story highlights that we all react in very similar patterns when in a situation even though we are unique individuals. Society has already programmed us to react in a certain way to a given stimuli.

This programming is all around us and women tend to be more susceptible to this. Maybe it’s because of all those trashy women’s magazines. What this means is that we can create a situation and know in advance what reaction we should get.

So What, How Does This Affect Your Dating

When you understand the way women think and the psychology behind it, your success will with them will increase as will the quality and quantity of women. The reason for this is because most women are predictable in their nature. They all want the same thing, it’s just in the detail that is different.

On the macro level, they all essentially want the same thing. They want to be loved, they want to have a nice lifestyle and they want to have beautiful well rounded children.

It’s from this macro level that creates the foundation upon which all your dating success will come from. Your success will improve as you dig deeper into the micro level, where she varies based on her identity, values, beliefs, education, etc… You need to have a good understanding of their psychology before you’re able to dig deeper into the micro level.

The way to do this is to profile them.

What Do I Mean By Profile Them

Women become habitual in the routine of their day. When they wake up in the morning, they brush their teeth in a certain way, they’ll put on their clothes in a certain way. They go to work the same way on the same mode of transport at the same time. When she gets to work she will get her coffee from the same vendor at the same time. She has become habitual and this routine is an easily recognized pattern. It’s this routine that accounts for 80% of her time.

Understanding Her Profile

But when you know her profile, you know that she reacts to the average guy the way she does because this is all part of her pattern. You will be able to stand out and differentiate yourself from all that average and when you do this you throw a spanner in her works of reasoning. She’s not used to this and doesn’t know how to react to this.

You’ve created intrigue. Because of this, she opens the door of opportunity for you and it’s through this door that you pass to get to know her to the level you choose to do so, you overlay your map of reality over hers and create the result you choose to.

It’s on the macro level that the interaction with her will start. You’ve accomplished the first step, you’ve opened up the opportunity, she is showing you interest in you where you are able to dig deeply in the micro level to determine the relationship.