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Payton Kane's Seduce & Conquer
Word of cautionPayton is the kind of guy that you either like or hate. Of all the people who give dating advice and dating tips I have found that I relate most to Payton and his theories.His style can be considered aggressive. Of all my friends whom I lent my CDs to none of them liked what they heard. Before I met my girlfriend I must have gone through at least 20 wings. Guys in the same situation as myself who wanted to get better at meeting girls. They dedicated time to learning the techniques needed to meet and seduce these girls and then practicing these techniques in the field. Of all of these guys there have only being two who have succeeded. The first one built the foundation of learning through RSD and my other friend has spent over 10 years refining his online game. I found somebody I could relate to. If you want to succeed then you need to find somebody that you can relate to. First impressionsI really liked what I heard and I started to implement his teachings. What I like most about Payton Kane and his teachings is that it is about mindset as well as strategy.I was getting a lot of success and my dating live was improving considerably. I was attributing my success to all the theories of the guru’s I’d been putting into practice. Then one day I went out on a date with a girl whom I ranked as a 10.
What happenedThe date was a disaster. After about 20 minutes she told me that she had to pick her brother up from the train station. In my mind I analyzed the chance of ever meeting this girl again was about 5%.I liked this girl and I wanted to see her again so I did something that I'd never done before. I sent her an e-mail telling her that I didn't want to see her again. It was done in a nice polite manner. Why I did what I didThe theory behind it was to let her think that I wasn't interested in her. All my friends thought I was crazy and were ready to send me off to the mental asylum.The psychology at play was that she was a hot girl and hot girls were not used to being dumped. Hot girls are used to having guys chase them, plead with them and begged them to go out with them. They love it and it strokes their ego. But when a guy does the opposite it hurts their ego. In their minds the only way to restore the balance of power is to give the guy another chance and then on the second chance they will dump him. The strategy worked a charm. I got a second date. The second date wasn't much better than the first one. But it did give me a chance to tease her a lot and disqualify myself. This created enough intrigue and for the next three months I got her to chase me until we finally hooked up. The strategy worked so well that we are now engaged to get married. I taken the teachings from Payton Kane and applied them in my real life. I was getting results so I decided to do his boot camp. Bootcamp overviewThe bootcamp ran for a week and there were two other students, a guy called Shane and Cliff from Cliff List. I was very excited to meet Cliff because it was his material that introduced me to the whole seduction community.The week did not go as smoothly as it could have. This is because I had very high expectations. Bootcamp: First EveningThe first night Payton Kane took us to a club called Coco Bongo. Coco Bong offers a mix of music and live shows. Because of this, we were told that the night was more entertainment then an opportunity to pick up women. Only two people had ever picked up in Coco Bongo, Payton Kane himself and another student.As such, he didn’t demonstrate what his teachings were, rather he enjoyed the show. I did the bootcamp to improve my ability to meet women, not to watch shows. As it so happened I did meet a girl when I was walking around the club and inspiration took over and I opened her with happy birthday, then started to kiss her. Bootcamp: Second NightThen the next evening we went out and things just didn't seem to happen. By this I mean I was expecting to see Payton Kane in action.He didn't seem to be doing anything out of the ordinary. So when he turned around to me and said that he was going to have the next evening off I kind of flipped out. In my mind this meant that it would not be until day four before I will get to see Payton in action. This caused friction between us. He told me he had done his job because I had met a girl the first night. I didn’t do bootcamp to pick up a girl, I did it because I wanted to improve my ability to pick up girls. Because of the friction he kicked me out boot camp. The next morning we kissed and made up though. Bootcamp: Day FourPayton Kane delivered. I wanted proof that he could pick up women and he wasn’t one of those guys that tell us great stories that are all fiction. He demonstrated to us what he had been teaching.From that moment on we go along very well. The friction was caused because my expectations had not been met. By letting Payton know what my expectations were, then he knew what he needed to do in order to deliver. Bootcamp summaryDuring the day we would hang around the pool and he would talk to us about game. At dinner he would continue to go through his theories. Then we would go out and apply what he had been teaching us.I got a lot from the week. For me, it was definitely worth the week. My game improved dramatically. But it improved dramatically because I was prepared to try Payton’s strategies. I will tell you my results, not to show off, but to show you what happened. If you are thinking of doing the Seduce and Conquer bootcamp and are trying to analyze if you should do so. By the end of the week I had hooked up with 7 women. Two of them had chased me. I would have had a threesome one night had my wing not destroyed my value by opening his mouth. On the last night I didn’t even to out with Payton Kane and the group because I met a girl at the hotel just before we were meant to go out. ConclusionPayton is a man with a big personality. You will either love or hate him. With this said though he has a lot to give you. The fundamentals to his game is that cocky and funny will not get you laid smooth seduction will.
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