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Submodalities

The only person responsible for your results with women is yourself. Only you can make the changes needed to attract women into your life.

Having this desire will move you to make the changes. Initially motivation will be strong but as time passes a lack of this initial motivation can make you give up long before you accomplish the necessary change.

Change is so much easier to make when you know what it is that you are doing wrong in the first place. When you know this, then you can change it. Having the tools to make the internal change will result in real world tangible results.

The first tool of change is submodalities.

What Are Submodalities

Every experience you ever had, good and bad, are coded and stored in your body. These experiences build upon each other to create your current experiences. If you past experiences have not helped you with your ability to meet women, then your current experience will likely follow what has happened in the past.

This is why you continue to experience the same things and get the same results over and over again. If you go out to clubs to meet women and your prior experiences are of frustration and not making connections with women, this is likely to be your current experience.

So if you are able to understand how you coded and stored your previous experiences, you can substitute those that don’t serve you with previous experiences that do serve you.

What happens is that as you are experiencing something you are taking it all in. You see, hear, feel, smell and taste. Seeing, smelling etc is your primary representational system modality. Each of these primary representational system modalities are made up of subcomponents.

For instance, the Visual Representational System is made up of the subcomponents of black or white, bright or dim etc… The ability to describe an image in more detail gives one the power to break down a thought system and behavioral pattern into its smaller components.

This process creates more choices and control when forming those Internal Representations (IR’s) and beliefs that determine experience.

Submodalities are how we code and store this information in our mind and body. They determine everything in our lives. They allow us to take charge of the experience of our life.

What is an Internal Representation?

An internal representation is the way you see yourself interacting with the world. It is the way you internally represent yourself.

For instance, a friend of mine has freckles. He has built a belief that women find freckles ugly. So his IR is that women must find him ugly because he has freckles. Because of this, he finds it hard to meet women. The irony is that women found him extremely attractive and openly threw themselves at him. But because of his internal representation he could not see this.

SBI!