Without a dating coach you will not get the essential feedback you need in order to take your game to the level that you want to take it to…
Anyone who rises to greatness has a coach. Tiger Woods might be the best golfer in the world, he has a coach to keep him on top of his game.
A star football team will beat a football team of stars. This is because of the coach – he is the person responsible for molding the team into a star team.
Without even knowing it, women have a dating coach. This comes in the form of those trashy magazines they read and because they are more sociable then men, they openly talk to their girlfriends about the men in their lives. They effectively coach each other through the relationship maize.
Because men are not as emotional as women, they tend to keep their emotions to themselves. As a result, they find it hard to talk to others about issues in their lives – the two biggest being money and relationships. They’re expected to instinctively know how to navigate through their problems.
This does not have to be the case…..
If you want to become good at anything you need to be able to get the answers to your problems. If you want to date lots of girls, you need to know how to do so!!!
It doesn’t matter where you are, if you’re having any issues, these issues are the learning experiences you need to go through to improve your life.
Life Experience
There are resources you need to pick up to take your consciousness to a new level – whether this be in a relationship with the girls of your dream or whether it just be to be able to seduce more women. The only way to pick up these resources it through practice and analysis. You go out and practice, if it works cool, if it doesn’t work then you analyze what went wrong.
It’s through this analysis where you pick up these resources – often referred to as life experience.
The fastest, most efficient way to get through this is by having a dating coach.
A Story
The other night I was out socializing with a group that I don’t usually mix with. I came across a guy that was perhaps the leader of the group. The girls gravitated towards him – he had the most presence.
I started a conversation with him. I was right, he had a selection of women whom he could go out with. He had had many girlfriends before. But he was having problems with on girl in particular.
It was with a girl whom he liked and wanted to date on a regular basis. He’d taken her out on a few occasions. Because he liked this girl, he changed his behavior. He was trying to romance her in the old fashioned sense. He was taking her out to restaurants, paying for the meals. He was romancing her the way it is portrayed in the movies.
And his reward was that she was treating him badly. She would cancel dates they had made in advance and even took another guys phone number in front of him.
This girl was treating him badly because he was allowing him to. Not only was he allowing her to treat him badly, he was rewarding her bad behavior.
What A Dating Coach Will Do For Your Game
We’re all at different levels in our game.
I have a good friend who is scared of girls despite being in demand. He always comes up with excuses; she wasn’t his type, she was too short, she was too tall etc…
Last week he had a date with a girl whom he liked. Because he had never taken the opportunity to learn how to interact with other girls whom he wasn’t interested in, he was helpless when on the date. He was so bad that he scared her away – despite the fact that she was the one that chased down his phone number, and made the first moves.
Then there is the player who is very good with women. He’s a natural. He easily interacts with them and dates lots of them. But when his emotions become involved, he changes his game and as a result can’t pull it off.
Just as my first friend who was rewarding bad behavior realized his errors when pointed out – he could revert back to whom we was and treat the girl like he would naturally. My second friend now realizes the importance of mixing with girls rather than finding excuses… All of these small steps when corrected build upon each other towards a successful date with the girl of your choice.
This is what a dating coach can do for you.
How It All Works
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