We are almost ready to write down our goals. These dating game questions are designed to assist you to get as clear as possible about what you desire for in your dating future. These questions are dating questions that will customize your results up front. They will clarify what it is that you really want to achieve in you dating life?
The dating game questions are to be used as a guideline to help you clarify what you want to achieve. Any and every goal that you set can be adjusted, changed, scrapped or enhanced. In realty your dating situation will change and as this occurs so too will your dating goals change.
| 1. What do you specifically want to achieve in your dating life? |
Use your imagination. What do you specifically want? Do you want to find the woman who will be your wife or are you looking to bed as many women as you can? When doing this dating question, make sure that you state it in the positive.
For example; If you are looking for a blond with blue eyes, state it as “I am looking for a blond with blue eyes”. If you state it as “I am not looking for a brunette with brown eyes”, then you will get a brunette with brown eyes. This is because a negative can’t be process by your subconscious mind (Dating formula step 6). |
| 2. Why do you want to achieve your dating goals? |
How will achieving your dating goals affect your life. Will it make your life better or will it make it worse.
For instance, if you are married and looking for a fling then if your wife finds out there is a very good chance that she will make life hell for you.
These dating game questions are designed for those whose intent is to positively empower their lives. Looking for a girlfriend because you don’t have one will empower you when you find the right one. |
| 3. What will happen if you achieve your dating goals? |
| Associate as much pleasure as you can to achieving your goal. This will push you towards achieving the goals and give you a lot of motivation to push through any humps you might come across. |
| 4. What will happen if you don't achieve your dating goals? |
This time associate as much pain as you can to not achieving the goal. But please make sure that you have already associated more pressure to achieving your goals because you want to have a towards motivation.
What I mean by this is that associating the pain is an away motivation. An away motivation will not give you the motivation needed to get over all of the humps to achieve your goal. It will get you to start to take action, get the motivation happening.
For example, when Oprah was asked about her weight goals she said that she did not want to the fat. Every time she lost a little weight she never managed to keep the motivation to lose more weight. The motivation for weight loss is an away from motivation. If the motivation was to be fit, healthy and slender then this is a towards motivation and she will continue to work until she actually achieves this goal. |
| 5. Where are you now in your dating life? |
| Do you spend your weekends sitting in front of the TV and watching sports. Perhaps you're already dating and you haven't found that special person you! What is your current situation? |
| 6. How will you know when you have achieved your dating goals? |
| What needs to happen so that you know you have achieved your goal. For instance if you want to get married is walking down the aisle of final step before achieving your goal. |
| 7. When you find her what will you see, hear, feel, taste and smell when you have it? |
Put yourself in the situation as if it is happening right now. Use all your senses to clarify your dating outcome. See it happening in your mind. When you do this, it programs your mind to create reality from your imagination.
The best picture you can create in your mind comes from the evidence procedure as discussed in dating game questions 6. |
| 8. To achieve your dating goal what do you currently have now and what do you need to get? |
| For instance, you might have a computer so you can set up an online dating profile. You might need to get a new wardrobe for when you do go out on your dates. |
| 9. Have you ever had or done this before? |
| Look back into your past and find references of your achieving this before. By doing this you are lighting up your neural path ways. Expectation rules outcome. We don't get what we want we get what we expect. Your expectations are going to determine what happens. |
| 10. Do you know anybody who is achieved what you want to achieve in your dating life? |
Find references of others who have achieved what you desire to achieve in your dating life. Until you find your true personality, imitate those who already have the dating mindset. By doing this you are lighting up your neural path ways.
When Oprah first started she imitated Barbra Walters. She sat the way Barbra Walters sat, she spoke the way she spoke. Oprah went on to be the biggest talk show host in the world. |
| 11. Act as if you already have it. |
By doing this you are lighting up your neural path ways. Expectation rules outcome. We don't get what we want we get what we expect. Your expectations are going to determine what happens.
Fake it till your make it!!! |
After you have gone through your dating game questions, you will have a lot more clarity as to what you want to achieve in you dating life. You are ready to write your dating goals. Realize that your goals can change and most likely will change. If in you dating game questions you discovered that you wanted to end up with a black woman and you meet a white one that you really like,
then you need to be flexible.
You might find that this women can take you on an exciting journey, to places that you never thought possible.
I know that in my dating life, I love it when I come across a girl from a different culture. So much history, so exciting!
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