Dating Strategies I Learned To Meet And Seduce Women

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Learnings, Growth And Personal Development To Get Dating Strategies That Work

Most of us have suffocated our natural dating strategies that would work for us to meet and seduce women.

As a result we can all find reasons why we are not deserving of women. These are excuses and if left as excuses they paralyse our chances with women.

If seen for what they are, an opportunity for personal development, then this sets off an exciting journey filled with the depths of frustration followed by the highs of ecstasy.

In my teenage years and early twenties I blamed my physical attributes for my lack of success. I was

Vertically Challenged: I'm only 5'6;
Baby Faced: At age 20 I looked like I was 12;
High Pitched Voice: Often I was mistaken for a girl when talking over the phone;
I had no career or job prospects;
I had no money in the bank

I now realize that it was all in my mind. These were my excuses that kept the girls away from me.

They came from the misinterpretation of the events of my life and the decisions I made as a result. As things continued not to work out I then sought evidence to confirm that I was never destined to be blessed with meeting and dating beautiful women. It became a vicious circle and very hard to break.

However, underneath it all a deep knowing that I was so much more. A belief that perhaps I was wrong. It was this belief that set me on the road to personal development.

Because of the decisions such as the one I made as a result of the way I perceived my first girlfriend, my decisions made it really hard for me to find women. My goal became to have an abundance of beautiful women in my life.

I didn’t have the knowledge, dating strategies or confidence to achieve it. So I had to learn how and get some dating strategies.

There were so many things to learn when acquiring my dating strategies. My universe went to work to provide these learnings. It set up situations and it sent me teachers.

One of the earliest was Anthony Robbins. This sent me off in the direction of working on my inner self. Visualization, affirmation, NLP were techniques I learned and started to implement. Other teachers came along. Under the surface I was making decisions to the answers as to how I could get women. Action was being taken as well.

And I tried everything in my power to get the answers. I was always doing little experiments to figure out what would work and what wouldn’t. Trial and error.

The most tangible action I took was to go to the gym. I became obsessed at trying to put on weight. I was only 54 kg. 3 hours of weights, 4 days a week followed by an aerobics class. I didn’t manage to put on any weight. What happened was that my muscles became very defined. My nick name during this period was initially Mighty Mouse which then was shortened to MicMo.

Even though I looked the best I have ever looked, I still found it hard to meet women. I would pick up the occasional one, but they were few and far between.

On the surface small things were happening. The odd girl here and there gave me temporary encouragement (and plenty of learnings). There was so much frustration, it was hard not to give up. The only reason I didn’t was because I had the deep desire to be with beautiful women.

After a year at the gym I gave up because it wasn’t working. I had had a girlfriend briefly, however the women were not coming as I thought a muscle bound guy would attract them.

Under the surface so much was happening. What I wanted was not yet tangible but things were falling into place. It wasn’t long after I had given up on body building that I had that life changing moment.

My next venture was in the entertainment industry. As I walked into a youth hall I was mobbed by 3 girls. One was stunning, the other two not so much. It was also the start of the most productive period of my life where I had an abundance of women.

Had I given up on my dreams then I would have turned out to be a very different person.

SBI!