Eye Patterns: The Eyes Are The Window to The Soul.
How do you know when she is telling you the truth or lying to you?
It doesn’t matter if you have just met her at the bar or if she has been your wife for 20 years, the way she is uses her eyes tells you how this correlates to what is happening inside her mind. The way her eyes dart around accesses her different resources such as
Is she creating a picture in her mind?
Is she remembering something from the past?
Is she creating noise or sound her mind?
Is she remembering noise or sound from the past?
Is she talking to herself in her mind?
Is she going into her feelings or how something feels to touch?
When meeting a girl for the first time, you don’t know much about her. She gets hit on all the time, so in her mind you are expendable. She will play out the script in her mind, which she had done on countless occasions. You will be able to follow to see if her script is working in your favor or not by using eye patterns.
By using her eye patterns you are able to create a deeper level of rapport. For instance, if she is looking up and to her right, then she is making pictures in her mind. If you were to say “do you see what I mean”, you would build a greater rapport then “do you hear what I mean”.
On the other hand, is she looks up and to the left, you know she is remembering from the past. When she tells you a story, knowing when she is creating it and when she is remembering it gives you important information during the communication.
Normally Organized vs Reversed Organized
This is where it can become a bit confusing for you. There are people who are left handed and the rest are right handed. This has to do with hemisphere dominance. Left handed people are generally reversed organized, but they are not all reversed organized. This just means they access information in the opposite hemisphere.
The eye patterns in the diagrams used on this website is for a normally organized person. These are people who are normally right handed. For reverse organized people, their eyes go in the opposite direction. For instance, if they are remembering a picture from the past, their eyes will shoot up and to the right, whereas a normally organized person will shoot up and to the left.
How To Find Out If She is Normally or Reverse Organized
It is important to know if she is reverse or normally organized because if you read a reversed person as normal organized, you will get the wrong reading. As she continues to dart her eyes up and to her left you will be reading her as remembering when in fact she is creating.
To find out whether she is a normally or reverse organized person is very easy to do. You ask questions and observe which way her eyes dart.
Making pictures (Visual construct): ask questions so she makes images and pictures never seen before
What would you look like on the front page of a magazine?
Remembering pictures (Visual remembered): ask questions so she recalls images seen in the past
What did your first car look like?
Creating sounds (Auditory constructed): ask questions so she makes up noise and sounds
What would I sound like if I had Donald Duck’s high voice?
Remembering sounds (Auditory remembered): ask questions so she remembers noises or sounds from her past
What was the first noise you heard when you woke up this morning?
Feel (Kinesthetic): ask questions to access feelings and/or how something feels to touch
How does feel to pat a dog?
Self talk (Auditory digital): ask questions so she talks to herself
Can you count from 1 to 10 in your head?
Eye Patterns
She Makes Images And Pictures In Her Mind - Visual Construct
When you observe her eyes shoot up and to her right, she is creating pictures in her mind.
If you have just met a girl in the bar and she is telling you a story of her sexual adventures and she continually is looking up and to the right, then you know she is making up this story. Often a girl will make up stories to test your reaction. When you know she is making up a story, then you can either call her on it or pretend it has no emotional impact on you. This will drive her crazy, you have passed her test, and she is even more attracted to you.
If on the other hand you react, she knows she has power over you. In her mind she will believe other girls have power over you as well and this makes her less attractive to you. You are headed towards friend’s zone or out the door.
She Remembers Images And Pictures - Visual Remembered
When her eyes dart up and to her left she is recalling past experiences. She sees these as pictures in her mind.
If you have just met a girl in the bar and she is telling you about her sexual exploits and her eyes continually shoot up and to her left, you know that she has lived these experiences. You now know that she gives it up easier than some other girls. You can make your decisions based upon this knowledge. If you value a girl that does not sleep around a lot, then you can move on. If you just want a quickie, this might be the perfect girl for you.
She Makes Sounds and Noise – Audio Construct
When her eyes dart to the side and left, she is creating sounds in her mind.
You are talking to a girl and you notice her eyes dart to the left and side, she is making up the conversation.
She Remembers Sounds and Noise – Audio Remembered
When her eyes dart to the side and right, she is remembering sounds from the past.
This will be most noticeable when she is singing along to music.
She Is Accessing Her Feelings or How Something Feels To Touch – Kinesthetic
When she is looking down and to her left, she is accessing her kinesthetic resources.
Kinesthetic eye patterns can mean that she is going into her feelings such as being excited to be with you.
It also means the feeling of touch. For example, what fur feels like to touch.
She Is Talking To Herself – Auditory Digital
When she looks down and to her right, she is talking to herself.
Next time there is a pause in the conversation, notice if she goes into self talk. This means she is analyzing the conversation. This will give you clues as to how the conversation is progressing.
Conclusion
When observing eye patterns you will notice that her eyes dart all over the place. She might briefly go into her feelings, the back to remembering how this felt in the past.
It takes practice to effectively use eye patterns to read her.