Being led astray by her and then she dumps

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Being Led Astray After She Expresses Interest In Your, And Then She Dumps You Like A Sack Of Potatoes

Being led astray is no fun... She builds her ego at your expense...

One of the most frustrating things that can happen to you is that you're getting along well with a girl. She’s showing a lot of interest in you. The communication goes beyond friendship and into seduction mode. Your juices flow as the excitement fills every vein in your body.

She is reciprocating, showing you interest, she is leading you along. She knows what she is doing. She can be very blunt about her intentions, she'll ask you if you want to have sex with her.

Then just as the expectations hits it peak she dumps you like a sack of potatoes.

Early on in my dating life I met a girl at a bar through a mutual friend. We hit it off and as the flirtations intensified the expectations of the evening built. She invited me back to her place to progress the seduction to sex which I happily accepted. When she got to her place, she asked me one question, what was her name? It was a loaded question because we hadn’t exchanged names. But this was her excuse to stop the seduction after being led astray.

What Is Her Benefit From Leading Us On Then Dumping Us

Many guys think this is cruel, what can she possibly gain from leading us on then dumping us like a dead fish. There are many different outcomes that can occur and it all depends on how you play the game. These are

If you play the game right she will have an awesome time
It could lead into a relationship if that is what you are both looking for
Dropping a guy after having him reveal his hand is good for her ego and not so good for your self-image

Why Does She Do This?

The first thing you need to know is that being led astray is her way of opening the door of opportunity for you. She is interested in you. She has found enough value in you to give you a slight sniff that you can get more intimate with her.

But you have to realize that this door if opportunity is only very slightly ajar. Her intent of interest is only fleeting and it’s up to you to make the right moves. If you don’t then you’re out.

For her to progress she has more at stake then you do. The most obvious is that she’s the one that gets pregnant. Then there is the peer group pressure of her friend. If she makes it too easy for your, then she’ll be branded as a slut. She needs to have a viable story to tell her friends so she doesn’t get this branding.

To progress this you need to play the game. You progress with caution.

How To Play The Game

Step 1: Realize being led astray for what it is. It’s a shit test, all part of the game.
Step 2: If you respond that you are into her then it’s game over.
Step 3: Play the game, get her to chase you. Take it to the next level.

Caution Is Required

By being led astray, she has given you the ball to advance the seduction. She’s expressed her interest in you. She is very close however you still have a hurdle to overcome.

This is a shit test!!!

If you make the wrong move, you’re out. Game over. If you make the right move, she’ll drag you out of the club, she’s ready. I’ve had girls drag me out just to get away from their friends. They want it so bad – they are sexual creatures, but they’re worried about their friends.

The Wrong Move To Make When Being Led Astray

If you respond that you're into her, then you're out. It is really hard for a guy to do. Realize that guys are wired up differently to girls. It’s in their DNA to have you led astray. They’ve been doing this since they were very young.

They'll build up your expectation and then drop you like a sack of potatoes without any hesitation. This happens all the time, what she effectively does is to build up her ego at your expense.

And this feels like shit!!!

The Right Move When Being Led Astray

The psychology behind the right move is that you need to give her a good enough story for her friends. She really want to be with you, however she doesn’t want to be branded as a slut. She needs to have a good reason for her to do what she does, especially if she has just met you.

The right move is to take the interaction to the next level. Set yourself apart from other types of guys. Make her chase you. And the way you do this is to reject the interest.

When you say to her “you know girl, I don’t know”, this gets her to chase you. She wants to be with you. She doesn't want you to want her. She wants to want you. You don’t need to be so away. Give her a little bit and then if she gives you back its going to happen. Then pull away a bit. It’s all in the way you pull away. Here are some examples of a response to a girl who asks if she can come back to your place.

“Depends on what you are going to wear when you come back to my place.”
“come on girl, I’m not that type of guy. If you want to come back to my place you have to be ready to impress me.”

I had a girl I met in a club ask me that exact question, “Do I want to take her back to my place?” It was a shit test and she was trying to build her ego in front of her friends. I had met her a few minutes earlier and we had only said a few words to each other. She wanted to show her friends how she could manipulate a man so they could all laugh at how pathetic men are.

I realized what she was doing and my response was a polite “no thank you”. I could heard her jaw hit the ground as she was left dumbfounded and embarrassed in front of her girlfriends. In her psychology, her value to her friends dropped and she needed to restore this. And the way to do this was to show her friends that she could indeed come back to my place. That was her story, she had a challenge, she was ready to chase me.

She pulled me aside and asked me why I wouldn’t. My response could have been any number of things. I knew at this point she was coming back to my place. I think my response was that she was with her friends and I didn’t want her to come across as a slut in front of her friends.

When I said this, she grabbed my hand and dragged me out insisting I take her back to my place.

Girls Game

Girls have so much choice out there because guys are so desperate. I’ve seen 20 year old guys chase 60 year old women just so they could get a screw. It’s because of this that they get to choose who they are going to have sex with. It’s their game.Part of their game is to have you led astray.

We know when a girl is into us but if we express our interest in her too soon, she loses interest in us faster than a speeding bullet.

Use her game against her. All we have to do is to do what they do to us back to them.