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Not Meeting Girls!!!Do You See The Glass Half Full or Half Empty?Why Are You Not Meeting Girls?Take stock now and assess your dating circumstance…
Being At EffectIf you have a good reason or excuse to the above question, then you are at effect.By being at effect you give away on your power and you will never have any results. When you blame somebody else for your current situation then you give them all the power. When they have all the power you are prevented from getting the learning. It is these lessons that you need to change your behaviors and produce different results. For instance; if your excuse for not meeting girls is because you are short; you lay blame with women for not finding short men attractive. You have given women all the power because when you lay blame to someone else, you believe that it is not in your control to change your situation. It’s the fault of women for not liking short men and it’s up to them. Because you are only able to process a fraction of all the information in every second of every day, buy being at effect, you have programmed yourself to delete, distort and generalize this information to support your belief system. When you stop blaming and finding excuses, then you get the learning that empowers you to go out and create your dating future. Those At Cause
Take responsibility for meeting women. No excuses, no blaming. Taking responsibility for your dating circumstance you realize that you created it. You realize that you are where you are because you chose it. Because you realize that it was choice that got you to where you are, you realize that you can now un-choose this. This is so important because your believe determines your behaviors. Your behaviors determine your result. Beliefs determine actions and actions determine results. For instance, in our example, when you choose to believe that women find short men attractive you program your subconscious mind to sort for those situations that will confirm your belief system. You have taken control!!! Your Dating Situation Is Your CreationYou create everything through your actions and your non actions. What steps did you take i.e. what were your past thought processes. This is what has created your current dating situation. This is how you created it. If the answer is an excuse or if you're blaming somebody else then realize that you need to take responsibility and move from the effect side of the equation to the cause side of the equation.The way you do this is by asking better questions. For instance, ‘has anybody short ever been successful with women?’, or ‘how do I use my height to my advantage so that women will be more attracted to me?’ This is what the master of life does. The master of life is a master of utilization. He utilizes anything and everything to his advantage. If you get lemons make lemonade. When we get rid of our reasons or excuses, we are left with our results. Take the best from your experiences to drive you forward. Your circumstances can cause you to spiral down to the depths of despair or you can utilize those circumstances to rise up to greater achievements of success. Commit to move from the effect side of the equation to the cause side of the equation. Go to top of not meeting girls page Back to How To Dating Tips home page |
