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Reading Women So You Can Understand Them

Reading women, then leading them is important because it will makes meeting, seducing and dating them so much easier.

Being able to attract a girl into your life is all about communication. If you can't communicate with them then you will not be able to meet, seduce and date them.

Too many people put too much importance as to what she tells you. But did you know that only 7% of communication is what is said? The other 93% of communication is the physiology and tonality. So to communicate effectively you need to observe her subtle physiological messages , the way she expresses them followed by what she actually tells you. This is you reading women.

Once you have read her you want to be able to lead her. A woman is attracted to a leader and this starts with you leading her. You will be able to take the initiative, she will find you sexy and it's going to be a whole lot easier to date her. This is how you start a relationship.

We are going to cover four basic skills:

Learn how to observe, examine and interpret external cues received from girls. We will be able to catch and read these signals efficiently.
Learn how to create rapport. Creating rapport is being ‘in sync’ or ‘on the same wavelength’ as her.
Lead her to positive outcome. And that outcome is a win/win for both of you.
We will look deeper into the way she interprets the world. By knowing this you are able to tailor your communication so as to get a better outcome from it.

Reading Women Is About Observing And Interpreting Her External Clues

When you meet a girl, you immediately decide where you would like to take the interaction. If she is a girl you want to get to know, you have to get beyond the first stage, this is meeting her. You only get to meet her for the first time once. You only get once change to make a first impression. With women that first impression decides the outcome.

She is always sending you a message. More importance should be paid to her physiology then what is actually being said. Her body language can’t hide her thoughts. What is said can and often is a whole pack of lies. Through observing and analysing the minute changes in her physiology you are able to understand her internal state. Does she like you or is she repelled by you. To observe this means that you are reading women.

When you know her internal state, what she is thinking and feeling, then you know how to proceed with her. The aim is to get beyond the initial contact and progress the interaction to your desired result.

For instance, if you are talking with a woman for the first time, you notice she is a bit dreamy and her eyes dilate, then it’s time to take it to the next level. If you are in a club, kiss her. If you are in a business meeting, ask her out.

But if she has a scowl on her face, has her legs and arms crossed, you need more time to warm her up. Kissing her could get a slap across the face, asking her out will end in rejection.

There are 5 external indicators that give you clues to an internal state change.

Understaning women and their signals and you will know when they are ready to be seduced.

She Likes Guys That Are Like Herself

People feel most comfortable around people who are similar to themselves. Think about this, don't you have something in common with your friends? Maybe you like football, motor racing or picking up girls.

When you first meet a girl you don't know much about her. It's hard to know what she likes. And because of this it's hard to find something in common.

The reason why you go searching for something in common is so that she will like you. If she likes you she will be more inclined to go out with you. So the sooner you find something in common the sooner you get to advance to the next stage of the interaction.

The way to do this is to create rapport. By creating rapport you are in sync, on the same wavelength as her.

The key to creating rapport is to match and mirror her in such a subtle way that it becomes undetectable by her. She will recognize the similarity unconsciously. When you create deep rapport you become massively persuasive on both a conscious and an unconscious level because you have created a deep and unconscious state of trust and responsiveness in her.

Understaning The Way She Interprets The World So You Can Communicate To Her In Her Language

Not all girls are the same. As such one approach might work with one girl whilst the same approach will fail miserably with another girl.

Reading women is about understanding that the communication between you and her will be interpreted differently from one girl to the other.

If you know the way she interprets the communication, the you can tailor it so as to make it the most compelling to her. This is done by picking up on her representational system and then communication through her preferred representational system.

Eye Patterns: The Eyes Are The Window To The Soul

Her eyes will give you so much information. The way she darts her eyes tells you how this correlates to what is happening inside of her mind.

Understanding eye patterns will help you with your communication with her and also help you create a deeper rapport with her.

Conclusion

In any interaction with the woman you have to communicate with her. Knowing what to look out for, reading women, then interpreting her message and coming up with the correct strategy is paramount should you want to take the interaction any further. Understanding these techniques will take your game to a whole new level.

A Personal Example

I was introduced to the seduction community through Cliff’s List. The first week of watching this material focused my attention on what to look out for. I was focused on reading women.

On Wednesday I had a business meeting with a girl whom I've never met with before. As this meeting progressed I realized that she had no interest in what I was trying to sell her. What I did notice is that she gave me a dreamy look. I knew she was not going to buy my product so I didn't even try and sell her. Instead I asked her out on a date. Two days later we were sitting at the back of a quiet bar, getting tipsy and kissing passionately.

I observed her dreamy eyes, interpreted what she wanted and led her from our business meeting to a first date.

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