You can't seduce women if you have no value to them

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To Be Able To Seduce Women, They Need To See Your Value

If you want to seduce women, realize the only reason she'll ever go with you is because you provide some value to her. On a basic level, a prostitute will go with you because of money, your value to her is purely financial. The more value you have, the more demand you will be with girls.

A girl will go with a rock star because his value to her is a rock star lifestyle. Some girls will go with a rock star want to be for the potential of living a rock star lifestyle. If you’re a prince, you will be in great demand because you can make her a princess.

You Won't Seduce Women By Being Average Because It's No Value To Them

One of the reasons men can't seduce women is because they're not aware of their value. They make the assumption that girls should know his value, but how can a girl know his value if he doesn't?

Because women get to choose they have the choice of which guys to go for.

Their problem is that guys make it hard for her to know their value. When they’re out they blend in with all the other guys. Everyone is just an average guy. This translates in her mind average – and nobody wants to be average.

Because of this she’ll base her decision on superficial facts such as the way he appears, the way he dresses and the way he carries himself. They really want to find a reason to meet a guy, so much so that they need to get plastered to find the excuse to hook up with him in the hope she will find his value.

If you’re an accountant, one of the reasons you might not be able to seduce women is because your value to her is average, and she has so much other choice of average surrounding her. If you’re in Thailand where there is so much poverty, an accountant is equivalent to a millionaire, it's easy to seduce women. Thai girls will value you because of the lifestyle you're able to provide for her.

Think about the Thai girl, on the macro level, women all want the same things. Do you think she wants to live in an overcrowded village where crime is rampant, her children are at risk of shorter lifestyle etc… or does she want to live like a queen in an average suburban home in a country that has wealth. To her this is a lifestyle as a princess.

What Is Your Value Proposition

The way to seduce women is to know what value you bring to the table that is unique to yourself. What differentiates you from the other guys and how can you subtly highlight this to her.

There are many techniques you can use to increase your value to seduce women and they are discussed in great detail through many of the seduction gurus; for example Peacocking. You are only limited by your imagination.

When I was in Cancun with Payton Kane he has a specific way of creating value to seduce women. At the clubs he would organize to have his own space, a VIP area especially for his entourage. Rather than paying the fee for all you can drink, he would spend money to buy a black label of Johnnie Walker and have this on the table for everyone to see. Then he would create enough rapport with the bouncers so they would look after you. When you go to the toilets, your own bouncer will barge through the crowd with you in toe. When a girl sees this, she thinks to herself, who is this guy?

Communicating Your Value To Her

Sometimes it’s not so easy to communicate your value to her. If you have a lot of money and you brag about it, then many girls will be turned off. Some say they're not interested in money, but really they are.

It’s the way you communicate your value that is so important if you want to seduce women. You need to be obvious in a subtle way. If you're not fortunate to have your value advertised on your behalf by being a famous person, then the best way to stand out from the crowd is to be a leader of men.

She's watching every guy in the bar. She makes a meaning from her observations and from these meanings she makes her decisions which guy she will go home with... If any.

She is attracted to the leaders in the club. The psychology behind this is that he

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As a leader he can provide her with a better lifestyle
If she's with the leader of the group, this automatically elevates her to the top of her social group of girls. Because girls are social creatures, this is very important to her.

Women Evaluate Themselves Against Other Women

When out, a woman will evaluate other women and place herself in an ordered list. If she sees a girl that she thinks is hotter then she is, she will put her above herself.

What this means is that the hot girls in the club will instinctively know who they are. Because they're the hot girls, they feel it is their privilege to have the top guy in the club. So the guy that shows the greatest value will get the hottest girl. If everyone is just average in the club, then she will select the guy that is showing the greatest leadership skills.

You’re Limited By Your Imagination, Use Everything To Your Advantage

Everything being equal, a girl will choose a tall man over a short man. The psychology is that the tall man is assumed to have more influence. In her mind this translates into a guy that is able to protect her better and provide a better lifestyle for her and her offspring.

One of my biggest hurdles I needed to overcome when in a club was my height. I’m short. As such, many girls overlooked me and this made it harder to pick them up purely on a height basis.

There was one evening that I was out at a nightclub with a friend of mine who is very tall. We were standing at the side of the dance floor next to two other very tall guys and a conversation started.

What I realized was that I was surrounded by the tallest guys in the club. So I decided to use their height to my advantage. I took a step forward and stood in front of them. I played up a bit and gave the appearance that they were my body guards. This worked a treat, as soon as I broke away from the group a girl came up to me.

If you find yourself average in a club, use any reasonable method to stand out from the crowd and show you’re a leader of men. This will improve your chances of being selected.

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