Sex And Headaches

Not Tonight, I Have A Headache

Sex and headaches don’t mix well. Don’t you just hate it when your girl gives you the line “not tonight, I have a headache”.

Fortunately I do not get this excuse because early on in my relationship, thanks to David Shade material I set up the right structure to take her from her world and trigger off the right process so that she is always in the mood.

As guys we are always ready for sex. For her, there needs to be more preparation. If this preparation is done correctly, when it comes to having sex she will be ready.

It’s this difference that if not fully understood is why she might not appear to be as horny as you. (Reality check: she is if not more so). So one thing she does to avoid having sex is to find an excuse. One favorite is “I have a headache”.

We know this is an excuse. It is one that is hard to argue with because we can’t feel it ourselves. But if you want to fuck with her brain, here is a strategy that will get rid of her headache in less than a minute.

Here is the strategy
Step 1: Ask her if she wants to get rid of the headache. She has to answer in the affirmative otherwise it will not work. Do not proceed to step 2 before you get an unconditional “yes”.

Step 2: Find out how bad the headache is on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being unbearable. Just ask her, on a scale of 1 to 10, where is your headache at now?

Step 3: Scramble her headache.
*** Please note, you will adopt your questioning to her answers, however I am sure you will see the pattern.

Diagram: Sex and Headaches, how to scramble her headache so she no longer has one.

If she wanted to get rid of her headache it will be gone now. If you find that she is searching for the headache, say to her“You can’t find something that isn’t there, can you?”

When I first did this with my girlfriend I had only managed to get half way through the process till she declared she didn’t have the headache anymore. The next time she had a headache, just the suggestion of this strategy got rid of the headache.

Of course the assumption here is that if she gets rid of the headache she will be in the mood to have sex. We are able to get rid of her headache, however this does not get her in the mood. So her response might be denial, she might even hold onto the headache just so she doesn't have to have sex.